I have officially reached that point in my travel era where the sight of a plane gives me heart palpitations. I’ve been on so many flights this year that the idea of packing one more carry-on makes me want to curl up and cry.
And don’t even get me started on the TSA lines. Just seeing those snaking queues has me clutching my chest. So when I woke up this morning and realized I have yet another flight this week, I didn’t feel excited—I felt dread. Pure, unfiltered dread.
But alas, a girl’s gotta go.
So, in the spirit of turning my travel fatigue into something useful, here are my Top 5 Solo Travel Tips—because let’s be honest, traveling with kids deserves its own 3-part docuseries and a support group.
1. Drive Yourself
Yes, sis—be your own chauffeur. Forget the ride-share apps and don’t guilt-trip your partner or friends into airport drop-off. Drive yourself, park your car, and waltz into that terminal like the independent jet-setter you are.
It’s honestly the best decision I’ve made this year. No awkward small talk with drivers. No waiting for pickup after a long flight home when all you want is your bed and a face wipe. You just grab your luggage, head to your car, and glide home in peaceful silence. Bliss.
2. Get There Early (Like, Actually Early)
Even if you have TSA PreCheck, Global Entry, CLEAR, or whatever new “skip-the-line” scheme they’re pushing—still, get there early. Like, an hour before boarding early.
Use the extra time to stretch your legs, call that friend you’ve been ignoring, listen to a audiobook, or simply indulge in some Olympic-level people-watching. During the holidays, though? Babe, double or triple that time. The TSA lines right now look like Black Friday at the Apple Store.
3. Ask for an Upgrade
Never underestimate the power of politely asking. At the gate, check if there are any last-minute upgrades—they’re often trying to fill premium seats for a fraction of the original cost. More legroom? A wider seat? A glass of something bubbly? Say less.
Worst case scenario, they say no. Best case, you’re champagne with your legs stretched out like royalty.
4. Pack Snacks (Seriously)
Gone are the days when airlines gave you a full meal on a flight longer than three hours. Nowadays, you’re lucky if you get half a bag of pretzels and a smile (if you’re lucky).
I recently took a coast-to-coast flight where they literally ran out of food for purchase. Imagine being trapped at 35,000 feet, hungry, and betrayed. Never again. Pack your favorite snacks, grab a water bottle, and protect your peace (and your stomach).
5. Download Everything
Movies. Shows. Podcasts. Audiobooks. That novel you’ve been pretending to read since July. Do not rely on airplane Wi-Fi—because it will betray you at the exact moment you need it most.
I recently thought I’d finish a paper mid-flight. Cute idea. The Wi-Fi didn’t work, and I hadn’t downloaded anything to distract me. I just sat there, staring into the void and regretting my life choices. Learn from my mistakes.
Final Boarding Thoughts
It’s wild to think that what used to be a glamorous, champagne-fueled experience has turned into… a test of endurance. Is travel even still a luxury? Maybe only if you’re flying private.
Until then, we’ll keep showing up with our sweat pants, compression socks, and oversized purses. Because no matter how stressful it gets, something about takeoff still feels a little bit magical—just don’t make me do it again this month.
Always Have, Always Will ~ Kalie